This is kind of like the 25 things – except there are pre-decided questions and it’s about you and your spouse/significant other, not just you. Come on, play along – inquiring minds want to know! 
? What are your middle names?
Mine is Claire and Ben’s is Carl.
? How long have you been together?
Together for 11 years, Married for 9.
? How long did you know each other before you started dating?
About a year or so.
? Who asked who out?
Ben asked me.
? How old are each of you?
I’ll be 30 in Dec. and Ben will be 36 in Nov. (but he wont make 37 if he doesn’t throw me a 30th bday party this year!!)
? Whose siblings do/did you see the most?
I guess you could say we see my sister and his brother about the same, though it’s not very often at all.
? Do you have any children together?
We have 3 kids, 2 together.
? What about pets?
Fish.
? Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
The 3 year period of infertility/miscarriages.
? Did you go to the same school?
Nope.
? Are you from the same home town?
Nope.
? Who is the smartest?
We’re smarter in different areas. For example, I’m smarter when it comes to computers/internet and cooking, and he’s smarter when it comes to doing math in his head and politics.
? Who is the most sensitive?
I think I probably am.
? Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Applebee’s, Longhorn, or Texas Roadhouse.
? Who has the craziest ex?
Um.. that would be me.
? Who has the worst temper?
We both have bad tempers, but I definitely have more patience!
? Who does the cooking?
Me.
? Who is more social?
Me.
? Who is the neat-freak?
Me, thought i’m not really a neat-freak.
? Who is more stubborn?
Probably Me…but it’s most likely a tie.
? Who hogs the bed?
BEN.
? Who wakes up earlier?
Ben.
? Where was your first date?
Hmm. I don’t think we had a first date. We were friends, so we just went out and did stuff.
? Who has the bigger family?
Ben.
? Do you get flowers often?
Nope. Though I did get flowers for V-Day and a fruit bouquet for our anniversary this year!
? How do you spend the holidays?
Before my mom died, we switched off on Holiday’s. We would either do our house, or split the time at both parent’s houses. Now we don’t do much. Maybe that will change when we move.
? Who is more jealous?
Definitely me.
? How long did it take to get serious?
A while. But we won’t get into that…..
? Who eats more?
Ben.
? Who does/did the laundry?
My mother-in-law. I usually do the laundry, but if it’s there, and she’s doing her own, she will throw mine in. She’s very thoughtful.
? Who’s better with the computer?
Me.
? Who drives when you are together?
If we are in my car, me (unless we are driving long distance or into the city, then Ben drives). If we are in his car, he drives.
